What is self-development and how does it apply to me and you? self-de·vel·op·ment /self ˈdəˈveləpmənt/ noun 1. The process by which a person’s character or abilities are gradually developed. (from Oxford) 2. Learning new skills. Overcoming bad habits. (YourDictionary.com) Simple, right?  Self-development is a choice: my choice, your choice.  Easy to do; easy not to do.  What happens if you